Approach is just as important as your goal. Communicating a change with your spouse for example, you may have the big idea of what they need to know, and you may have an application/result you’re hoping for, but if you get the wrong approach… you’ll end up apologizing!
You have to care about what people do with what you teach. 1 Corinthians 9 has Paul talking about how he came to win. He didn’t come to make a point, or to be right; he came to make a difference.