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Friends ought to Excommunicate Friends

I had a friend talk to me recently about a mutual friend who’s walking away from God.  This would be sad enough in and of itself, but she’s make a joke of Jesus in the process; celebrating her new found lifestyle, and expecting us to do likewise. 

The issue is big enough that I was asked, “Shouldn’t we kick her out of the church?”  I hesitated.  It was a hard hesitation.  Based on this woman’s unresponsiveness to a number of confrontations, the answer is sadly yes.   My reason for hesitating however, from a pastoral standpoint, is that excommunicating this woman for her issue means we’d have to excommunicate 17 others in our church with the same issue.

Do I have an excommunication back-log?  Have I been unfaithful in addressing sin issues in our congregation?  I whimpered through the rest of the conversation and felt like a failure.  Continue reading